Tantric Sexuality Lessons
Aphrodisiac: Fact Or Fiction - Ron Solo
For as long as men and women have been exchanging meaningful glances across dinner tables, they have looked for ways to spice up our love lives. Most people think that either foods or drugs are used as aphrodisiacs, but in fact, an aphrodisiac can be anything that can stimulate sexual arousal. I think it's fair to say that the concept of aphrodisiacs have been around for as long as mankind has been on this earth.
Listed below are a few examples of so called aphrodisiacs
Illicit drugs
Some illicit drugs can directly cause the release of neurotransmitters in the brain. These neurotrans-mitters are linked to the pleasure centers in the brain, but for me a truly tantric experience is far more complex and an infinitely more satisfying erotic experience
Legal Drugs
The most recent solution, of course, is Viagra and a host of other Viagra type drugs. In ancient India, a young man who proved passionless in the sack used an "original” Viagra-type potion which was goat testicles boiled in milk. These drugs certainly have their place, especially for men who have erectile dysfunction problems but sadly, they only work effectively on plus minus 30% of men.
Magic potion
Fresh snake blood is still revered as a stimulant in parts of Asia, as are bat blood, reindeer penises, shark fins and ground rhino horns. And of course, Spanish Fly, which isn’t a fly at all but the dried remains of beetles, which irritate the male urogenital tract, causing a prolonged erection - and potentially serious discomfort and even death
Herbs
Many Herbs Can Enhance Sexual Desire, for example: Damien, Belladonna, Calms, Raceme, Kava-kava, Lesage, Sassafras Tree Saw Palmetto and Yarrow.
All the above where used by the ancients combined with some disgusting things to increase sexual desire but this appears too complicated and there must be other more simple ways to enhance passion.
Aromatherapy Essential Oils
Among essential oils for aromatherapy the following ones have the potential to act as aphrodisiacs: ylang-ylang, tuberose, bigarade, neroli, jasmine, patchouli, vanilla, cinnamon.
Foods
Chocolate - The Aztecs used chocolate as an aphrodisiac. "Cocoa” itself actually releases serotonin, which is a hormone that makes you feel good and excited and chocolate give you a lot of stamina because of the sugar.
Oysters contain high levels of zinc, which affects our progesterone levels and, theory has it, affects our libido.
Asparagus – it is a diuretic, which stimulates activity of kidneys and is depurative. People who eat a lot of asparagus have also many lovers according to the ancients.
Celery - will act as a stimulant if you eat the fresh root. It is reputed to strengthen the sex organs. Celery root contains an essential oil and minerals iron, calcium, magnesium, sulphur, phosphorus.
Date Palm found in-Asia, Arabia, North America- invigorate, inebriant, dates eaten, palm wine drunk. Add preparations of nightshade, hemp or opium for better results.
Durian Fruit has an intriguing reputation in Southeast Asia as having aphrodisiac properties. It is not clear whether this is attributed to some substance in the fruit pulp
Pimento - found in Central America, Caribbean- stimulant, one of the most common spices in ancient America and Indian folk medicine. It warms the body, Aphrodisiac, when taken in large quantities, especially with cocoa. Contains essential oils
Pineapple / Ananas cosmosus - diuretic, invigoration! Has a great digestive effect, a purifying effect. Use fresh fruit juice. For aphrodisiac effects to work-- eat pineapple with chilli powder or mixed with honey and rum. A small glass taken daily promotes energies of love.
Pomegranate tree / Punica granatum - Mediterranean, Asia Minor- invigorator! The fruits are eaten-- the fruit is sacred to Aphrodite. The rinds are rich in tannins.
Sea Bean / Canavalia maritima - South America, Africa- psychedelic, the beans have aphrodisiac qualities. They are ingested or smoked in the place of marijuana. In ancient America these beans were used in magic and rituals, they have been found in the prehistoric graves. The active substance is L-betonicine.
Squash / Curcubita pepo - America - diuretic, invigorator, seeds eaten and aphrodisiac for women. In Aurvedic and Tantric systems seeds eaten during rituals of love, and belong to vajicarana. Seeds contain fatty oil, protein and vitamin E that is important for healthy sexuality.
Sweet Potato / Ipomoea batatas - Sental and South America - invigorator! Excessive consumption stimulates the woman's sex drive.
Thorn Apple - Datura species, Solanaceae - strong psychodelic, very erotic, plant of prophesy and witches plant. Leaves or flowers brewed into tea, seeds eaten, herbage smoked. All species and all parts contain highly active tropane alkaloids.
Wild Lettuce / Lactuca virosa - Europe, North America -narcotic, dried sap smoked for ritual purposes and as a sexual stimulant. Contains an alkaloid lactusine which has qualities that are similar to morphine.
Basil / Ocimum sanctum - South Asia, Europe - used as spices, medical uses Eat one leaf a day to: maintain health, prosperity, and fertility. Basil gives for an exciting sex life. The popular spice Basil (Ocimum basilicum) also possess aphrodisiac powers. Contain essential oil, tannins and vitamins.
So what substance would I give my loved one and myself to get the neurotransmitters going? Guess what?
Spaghetti Bolognaise - a Romantic Dinner
The stage: Your bedroom
The props: A picnic rug on the floor, a low table, soft music, soft light for examples lots of small candles, incense
The aphrodisiac: Spaghetti bolognaise oozing with red sauce
The method:
Both take a long hot shower and then sit opposite each other totally naked.
Slowly touch each other across the table lovingly gazing into each other's eyes.
Then slowly begin feed each other. Let the sauce drip from your mouths onto your body leaving little rivers of red.
Suck the long strands slowing making schlepping noises.
Tease each other slowly with the food.
Take the table away and slowly massage the sauce that has fallen onto you lovers body.
I don't think that I have to tell what to do next, but I promise you will have the most beautiful and sensual and erotic experience
The conclusion
The biggest sexual organ is this one up here in the brain. If this isn't stimulated, it doesn't matter what you do.
So forget aphrodisiacs, here are a few further tips for a bedroom bonanza:
1.) Make sure you're healthy. "If you both want a great life in the bedroom, you both need to check individually the physical aspects of your health.
2.) Resolve any issues or arguments with your partner.
3.) Minimise stress. "You need to get rid of the stress that's affecting your life or at least control it, and then all you've got to do is have fun.
4.) Let go and enjoy each other's body touch smell lick and gaze the human brain can work wonders with resorting to chemicals
I would love you to email us some feedback about your experiences with the Spaghetti Bolognaise Aphrodisiac.
Lots of tantric love to you all
Ron Solo (written especially for this website)